Snapshot.

I can be friends with someone that I'm attracted to, particularly someone who can maintain a good chat. I've done it before. Lots and lots and lots of times. (I'm eager to continue taking risks to find someone who I don't have to do this with, but that's not happened yet. That's what's going to happen.)

Snapshot and I spoke last night, and all is friendly in the world. Today, I will meet him to see about taking him down off of any sort of pedestal, for, to be friends, there needs to be no pedestal.

I found his website. His photos are good. I'll post a link.